Questions: Asking for Help

Question 1

When should you always ask a grown-up for help right away?

• A. When you cannot reach a toy on a high shelf
• B. When someone is hurt, there is a fire, or you feel unsafe
• C. When you do not know the answer to a homework question
• D. When you want a snack

Answer: (B)

Emergencies — someone getting hurt, a fire, or feeling unsafe — are situations where you must get adult help right away. Other situations (reaching a toy, homework, wanting a snack) are not emergencies. You can try to solve them yourself first and then ask for help if you need it. Learning to tell the difference between emergencies and non-emergencies is an important skill.

Question 2

Asking for help means you are weak.

• T. True
• F. False

Answer: False

Asking for help is actually a sign of strength and intelligence. It means you know your limits and you are smart enough to find a solution — even if that solution is getting another person involved. Everybody needs help sometimes — even adults, even teachers, even parents. No one can do everything alone.

Question 3

What are two things you should say or do when asking an adult for help in an emergency?

Model answer: Tell them clearly what is wrong — for example, 'Someone is hurt on the playground' or 'I smell smoke.' Speak loudly and clearly so they can understand you. Stay calm enough to give them the important information: what happened and where.

In an emergency, clear communication matters. The adult needs to know what happened and where so they can help quickly. Practicing how to ask for help — staying as calm as you can and stating the problem simply — makes it more likely that help will arrive quickly when it is needed.